Everybody makes mistakes, everybody deserves the chance to change. Allow them to do so. When pressure increases, those around you are affected and influenced. Their stress can affect you. The constant demands of others often birth impatience and mistakes, during those moments, your mercy is necessary.
Wrong words are often blurred out.
Inaccurate assessments are made.
Think back upon your own life, many frustrations drove you to that moment of indiscretion, those cutting words and angry outbursts.
Allow forgiveness, give them enough time, things are happening you cannot see. Sometimes it takes weeks and even months for some to realize and admit their mistakes. In those moments, give them a season of solitude. Give them opportunities for expression.
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They may not know the right choice of words at first, be willing to listen longer. Give them time to evaluate every part of the puzzle.
You may be looking at one part, they may be considering many different factors they have yet to discuss with you.
Also give them time to discover the truth about you, they do not know all your capabilities, your strength and your flaws. They may not understand your memories, your pains, your goals or dreams. They may be looking at now but you may be looking at tomorrow, but in all, allow others space to correct their mistakes..
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